How our Tech Social events make it easy to meet new people
People come to Tech Socials for many reasons -- to meet new people, make friends, get advice, find jobs/contracts, learn about cool tech, hire, all kinds of stuff. ...but why? How is any of this comfortable for a demographic that's stereotypically rather introverted? Simple: because Tech Socials make everything easy and safe by removing uncertainty.
To explain, let's put this in context of another typical social outing -- going to a nightclub or bar. For many, that can be pretty overwhelming and intimidating; talking to strangers is scary because we don't know who they are, how they'll react, what to expect, or how to behave to ensure positive outcomes.
The typical nightclub experience
You see a group of people chatting. They look interesting. Should you say hi? Can you join in? What are they interested in, what should you try talking about, how will they react? What if they don't like your dance moves, clothes, or choice of drink? Do these nightlifers actually want to meet new people or just hang with friends and look cool? Are they there to pick up romantic (or not-so-romantic) partners? Would you be interrupting? They're almost certainly not going to walk up and say hi, so it's up to you -- but it's so loud, you have to yell, what if they interpret that as creepy or weird? What if they're mean and rude and nasty, what if they reject you? What if they're bullies and get aggressive? Could you just walk away awkwardly from a rejection, or would it be so horrific that a bouncer needs to step in? And follow-up - does said bouncer have good hygiene?
How do you overcome insecurity and be 'cool' under these circumstances? So much can go wrong.
Now compare that to our relaxed, down-to-earth tech events with an atmosphere designed to only appeal to certain kinds of people...
What to expect at any given Tech Social
You show up, a smiling volunteer (check this 1-minute volunteer overview for what that involves) writes you a nametag and welcomes you to the event. You look around and see a diverse group of people standing around and chatting. Here's what you discover:
- there's no music; if it's loud, it's because people are excitedly having intelligent conversations
- everyone's interested in some aspect of technology so it's easy to find common ground to talk about
- folks are quirky, friendly, earnest, vulnerable, non-threatening, and actually there to meet new people (strict no-dirtbag policy)
- attendees generally have good intentions and are pretty smart, so they avoid being drunk idiots around and/or hitting on potential new friends/employers/colleagues
- everyone wants you to drop the image and just be you, because if you can nerd out about stuff you like, it means they can, too
- these pleasant people place more value in your intentions than your Prada fanny pack; they're very forgiving of social awkwardness since they're used to it
It's like that awesome Van Morrison song, "Dancing in the Moonlight" -- except it's indoors and people aren't dancing, but you get the point.
In a nutshell, Tech Socials are safe. They're like "cheat mode" for meeting new people and making friends because they take away many of the unknowns and risks associated with social interaction. It doesn't matter if you come alone or bring a friend; that's not how 'cool' is judged. So come hang out, meet some people, chat up strangers. Chances are, you'll barely have to try. Find the one in your city here.
See you soon, pals!